[gets up from his seat and makes the very bold move of scooting Charon's chair back just enough from the table to sit in his lap and wrap his arms around his neck]

That is my strong recommendation. Your pride might be hurt if you put up your defenses and I break them all down. For romance, it's better if you let me do whatever I want right from the start and just give me...feedback. If there's something you dislike.